My Tween is Afraid of the Dentist
Helping Your Child Overcome the Fear of Regular Dental Exams
You know that regular dental visits are important for good overall health for your child. Strong teeth can provide protection from contracting diseases such as gingivitis (an infection of the gums) and tooth decay (break down of tooth enamel), among others. But sometimes, the struggle to calm your child seems almost useless when it comes to dragging her into the office.
Finding a Pediatric Dentist
The first step to helping ease your tween's anxiety about going to the dentist is to find one that has expertise working with children. While it is convenient for an entire family to have the same dentist, sometimes it is better to opt for a different one, if it means your child will feel more comfortable. You want a pediatric dentist who is not only skilled with dental procedures, but also caring and in tune to childrens' fears of visiting the dentist. Check your local phone book, call a dental hotline, or get referrals from friends and family to find the right dentist for your tween.
Creating Distraction During a Dental Exam
Another method for easing a tween's anxiety is to create a distraction that keeps her from concentrating on her fear. For instance, consider letting your child hold a favorite stuffed animal or doll during the dental exam. You might also try asking the dentist if it is okay for your tween to listen to music through a set of headphones. A good dentist will also engage a worrisome child in conversation to take her mind off of drilling noises or pointy objects.
A Treat for Good Behavior
There is really nothing wrong with giving your tween a treat for staying calm in the dentist office. Strike a deal that if she behaves and displays self-control during the exam, you will stop at her favorite place for a smoothie or some other special treat after the visit. Many dentists also provide children with special prizes for good behavior by offering a treasure chest of goodies or even giving out gift certificates for food at a favorite restaurant.
The Dental Sedation Option
Some of the more modern dental offices are now offering sedation for patients who are really nervous during a dental exam. This is even true for children. Talk with your dentist and request that he let you know about his intention to administer such medication before allowing him to proceed on your tween. While this method does relax patients and is relatively harmless as far as side effects go, you should know that your tween is receiving it ahead of time, and you have the final word on whether or not it is okay.
It should be noted that research has shown that using sedation techniques during dental exams does not necessarily help one overcome her fear of dental visits in the long run. This can only be done through behavior modification. Sedation can also be more costly to you.
Talk with your tween about the different options available for helping her overcome her fear of the dentist office. Reassure her that while dental instruments can look scary, they rarely hurt when used properly. Also confirm your belief that her dentist is a caring individual who will provide her with as much comfort as possible. This will help her become less afraid of dental visits in the future.
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